YOU= You or Used What characteristics, dress attires, personal traits, and spiritual awareness define YOU? defines YOU as “the pronoun of the second person singular or plural, used of the person or persons being addressed, in the nominative or objective case”. As a child of God, YOU be defined as: Being a new creature in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17 … Read More

What I Am Not

We get tangle up within society’s web of social identity, when we continuously try to dress to impress others, engage in charismatic conversations, and influence others through our entertaining spending habits. This charade can only last for so long. This is not who we really are. Instead of operating from the What I Am Not to get public recognition, let … Read More


Wow!! It is a new year and time for us to select our lifestyle identification. Who or what will we identify ourselves too? Since we are the new creature in Christ, we can dress, act, and talk like our Creator. Our identification card will display the following: Spiritual connection- we are wearing the whole armor of God. Soul connection- we … Read More

A Star

  As we gaze into the sky, we see several stars. We have been known to wish upon a star. We have been informed that everybody is a star. Dictionary has several definitions for the ward star: • “A fixed luminous point in the night sky that is a large, remote incandescent body like the sun”. • “A movie, play, … Read More

Be Confident

Bold Confident When we stand up for what we believe, we are asked “Who do you think you are”? Let us meditate on that statement for a moment. Well, who do we think we are? We are fearfully and wonderfully made in His image (Psalm 139:14). Since we are walking in His image We can boldly in love confront someone … Read More

Wonderfully Made.

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Each one of us was uniquely created in His image. Let us do a mirror check. As we look at ourselves in the mirrors: Let us not dwell over our dislikes of our skin colors or hair textures. Let us be over joyed in God’s grace in His blessing that we have hair and that our skin colors compliment the … Read More

You Know Me

  “If anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation” (2 Corinthians 5:17 NIV) We all believe we are children of God; yet, most of the time we do not experience the abundant life offer to us through Jesus Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection. For example, when our days are filled with twists and turns from life disappointments, we … Read More


Identity-Impact We have to decide how we are going to define our self-worth and value through our self-identity. This means we must engage in stripping ourselves (naked now) of seeing ourselves through yesterday vision while we focus on self-image through tomorrow lenses. This will release the tension and anxiety that comes from living within our self-identity collision of opposite (who … Read More

Self-Care Strategy 3

Relationships are important. Family security on God’s list is number two. “Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever” (1Timothy 5:8 NIV). ALSO “If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?” (1 Timothy … Read More

Self-Awareness Strategies

Strategy 5-Don’t be fooled by a bad mood -Self-awareness allows us to know what we are going through even if you cannot change the outcomes. To avoid a bad mood deception let us: Admit to ourselves that our mood is bad. Ask God to show us why we feel this way. Remind ourselves that we can be going through a … Read More